Made over 6 years, YOUR FAT FRIEND charts the rise of writer and activist Aubrey Gordon from anonymous blogger “Your Fat Friend” to NYTimes best selling author and beloved podcaster. Her aim - a paradigm shift in the way we see fat people in the world and the fat on our own bodies.

As “Your Fat Friend” she writes with candour and humour about what it means to be a very fat woman in the world. With searing honesty she describes what it’s like to be that fat person on the plane..

… and how the fantasies, peddled by a diet and wellness industry worth $26 billion a year are on a par with the lies that Big Tobacco told the public in the 1950s. (95-98% of diets fail for lasting weight loss). And how the biggest threat to fat people’s health might just be the bias that some many health care providers hold for fat people. 

…and about her own fractured relationship to her body.

She spent a decade campaigning for LGBTQIA rights so she knows that change is possible. Now it's time to advocate for herself. 

This isn’t about “body positivity” co-opted by brands to sell fat-kinis to size 16 women, it’s about bringing about a paradigm shift in the way that we treat fat people and the fat on our own bodies. It has brought her an insatiable worldwide audience, a book deal and threats to her life. 

We follow Aubrey’s rise from anonymous blogger to NY Times best selling author and co-host of the podcast Maintenance Phase. The most meaningful change is when her family start listening to her message.

YOUR FAT FRIEND charts the complexities of finding a place in the world when you don’t quite fit.

2023. 96 Mins. Documentary
Field Of Vision & BFI Doc Society present a Glimmer Films production

www.yrfatfriendfilm.com


“Another joyously insightful, subversive and ultimately uplifting documentary from the great Jeanie Finlay”
MARK KERMODE

“Heartfelt, clear-eyed filmmaking”
★ ★ ★ ★ LITTLE WHITE LIES

“Keen and compassionate, thought-provoking”
★ ★ ★ ★ TIME OUT

“A film that deserves your undivided attention”
★ ★ ★ ★ ★ STYLIST

“Fascinating and compelling”
★ ★ ★ ★ SCOTSMAN

“Soft, generous, questioning, and filled with empathy”
SIGHT & SOUND

“Engaging, eye-opening… important”
SCREEN INTERNATIONAL

“It will change your interactions with the fat people in your life”
CNN

“Everyone should watch it.
THE FILM EXPERIENCE

“Extraordinary”
FILMMAKER MAGAZINE

” Moving”
THE DAILY BEAST

“A beautiful film about messy feelings”
LETTERBOXD CREW

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Credits

Director

Jeanie Finlay

Producer

Jeanie Finlay

Consulting Producer

Suzanne Alizart

Executive Producers

Charlotte Cook / Shanida Scotland / Sandra Whipham

Director of Photography

Stewart Skylar Copeland

Cinematography

Jeanie Finlay /

Editor

Alice Powell

Original Music

Tara Creme

Music Supervisor

Graham Langley

Re-Recording Mixer

Pip Norton

Colourist

Vicki Matich

Post Production House

Molinare

Edited at

Broadway Cinema